hey all

i hate the whole body image thing i am attractive, so i think, so why is it that most men and women
think u must be super thin or a butch to be attractive im very fem and lipsticky yet kinda tomboyish too
and have lost alot on jenny im down to 125 from 169 , yet i still find especialy in the bi gay community this
stereo type am i wrong am i just a tatooed and pierced freak?

any one else find this annoying and kinda depressing?


love n kisses
erika

Erika,

I get what you are saying. It stinks that ppl have tunnel vision when it comes to body image. However, I think that it's the personality of the girl/guy that makes them attractive. A nice (not perfect) body is nice, but isn't everything. I am amazed on how much you have lost!! I actually started at 164 and am wanting to get down to 125. How did you do it?? It would be great to talk to a person that has done what I'm shootin to do.

~Josi~